And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready (Hardcover)

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And Now We Have Everything is a raw, honest account of pregnancy, birth, and motherhood. In her late 20s and recently engaged, O’Connell realized she was pregnant. It wasn't part of the plan, but it was what she wanted—and not at all what she expected. Funny, sarcastic, and blisteringly sincere, O'Connell doesn't pull any punches. She willingly exposes the fears, anxieties, and selfish thoughts few of us admit to and all of us have. And Now We Have Everything is part memoir, part manual, a little horrifying, and completely endearing. -Emma

— From Spring Booknotes 2018

April 2018 Indie Next List

“Times have changed, women have changed, and, naturally, the experience of young(ish) motherhood has changed as well. I often tell people that becoming a mother was equal parts wonderful and abysmally dark and get blank stares, but here it is: a tale like mine, articulated with clarity and wit! I'm excited to be able to recommend this honest and relatable account of modern pregnancy and motherhood.”
— Cristina Russell, Books & Books, Coral Gables, FL


One of the most anticipated books of 2018 -- Esquire, Elle, Nylon, Huffington Post, The Boston Globe, The Rumpus, GoodReads, The Millions, BookRiot, Bustle, The Week.
"Smart, funny, and true in all the best ways, this book made me ache with recognition." -- Cheryl Strayed
A raw, funny, and fiercely honest account of becoming a mother before feeling like a grown up.

When Meaghan O'Connell got accidentally pregnant in her twenties and decided to keep the baby, she realized that the book she needed -- a brutally honest, agenda-free reckoning with the emotional and existential impact of motherhood -- didn't exist. So she decided to write it herself.
And Now We Have Everything is O'Connell's exploration of the cataclysmic, impossible-to-prepare-for experience of becoming a mother. With her dark humor and hair-trigger B.S. detector, O'Connell addresses the pervasive imposter syndrome that comes with unplanned pregnancy, the fantasies of a "natural" birth experience that erode maternal self-esteem, post-partum body and sex issues, and the fascinating strangeness of stepping into a new, not-yet-comfortable identity.

Channeling fears and anxieties that are still taboo and often unspoken, And Now We Have Everything is an unflinchingly frank, funny, and visceral motherhood story for our times, about having a baby and staying, for better or worse, exactly yourself.

About the Author

Meaghan O'Connell's writing has appeared in New York Magazine, Longreads, and The Billfold, where she was an editor. She lives in Portland, OR, with her husband and young son.
Product Details
ISBN: 9780316393843
ISBN-10: 0316393843
Publisher: Little Brown and Company
Publication Date: April 10th, 2018
Pages: 240
Language: English